Older Child Adoption

Postpartum depression has long been attributed to changes in hormone levels after birth. However, a significant portion of adoptive parents report experiencing post-adoption depression (PAD). This often unrecognized form of depression might be unknown to health-care workers and adoption professionals.

The symptoms are the same as those for most forms of depression. They may include fatigue, irritability, loss of appetite, sadness, and a general sense of being overwhelmed. Individuals with a history of depression or families who have experienced failed adoptions or the loss of a referral may be at higher risk for PAD and may be more likely to experience it.

Finalizing an adoption is an emotional climax to perhaps years of trying to build a family. The stress of the process may be replaced by the new stress of caring for your child. PAD may be affected by unresolved infertility issues, physical demands of your child, changes in peer relationships, fear of legal issues arising with the adoption, or health problems (yours or your child’s).

These feelings are not uncommon and will pass. However, because PAD can negatively affect attachment and bonding, it is important to seek help as necessary, which may include professional aid or friends and family who can help. Your needs and available resources will the level of help you seek.